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Last Updated (Monday, 19 May 2008 18:41)
Written by Don Juan
Honestly speaking, there are only five steps to make the relationship between you and your sweetheart better. But as the people all around the world are divided into men and women let’s look on the five steps for both sexes.
Born to be a woman. Imagine the situation: one morning you wake up and realize he doesn’t call you ‘honey’, ‘baby’ or ‘bunny’ anymore. Then you try to save everything you did together. You buy new brand clothes or lingerie; get a new makeup style, but everything in vain. That means you have no special plan for keeping relationship. There are five steps to rebuild it.
To be faithful to your man, yet not to be faithful to yourself. That means you can betray yourself. Who said it is impossible? You’re able to betray your habits to lead to crash in relationship. Next morning when waking up try not to remember everything was wrong, but remember the fact you’re lying in your own bed with still man of yours and the fact you’re still alive. Try to feel this. Then write down a list of things that lead you to breakup. Do you know the males in nature have sex with their girlfriend just several times then he has to look for another one? Your man is the same male, yet he doesn’t realize he is. Maybe there is something he doesn’t like about you…then change it unexpectedly, yet not in your manner. Feel the pleasure of your new image, character or lifestyle. And concentrate more on your changing than on the result.
Your skin. Cleopatra chose men for one night and never did the men choose her. Her bathes are now famous all over the world. She used milk for bathing and had true royal leather. By the way, men used to feel most things by touching. You’re sweetheart will notice the change in your body.
A secret. Try to show you have some special secrets. Sing songs, but not very loud. Think about something like in a fairy tale. Imagine that you have got a special present this morning or met some old friend of yours, or something like. Feel secret smile on your face. This will make him feel a little bit jealous and think he’s loosing someone dear and close.
Appreciate yourself. You should appreciate yourself. If you don’t like yourself, nobody will. He won’t either. If you don’t think you’re pretty then find one feature of yours that you like about yourself most. For example, you like your eyes, admire them every day, say you have the most beautiful eyes and one day he’ll say: “You have the most wonderful eyes in the world”
The last psychological step. Go together to a melodrama movie, but do not watch feminine one. The movie idea must be ‘Appreciate what you have now’, just when one of the main characters has to die. The true acting will make him realize whom he lives with and appreciate every moment you’re together with him.
If you did everything right and still the relationship disappoints you then maybe it’s wiser to walk away. And, quite possible, there is another man coming to your life because such work always gives the best results.
Men steps. So you’re mad about your woman and you don’t want to let her go.
Once you wake up and understand that she shows no interest to your person. But you still want to keep your relationship. Many outstanding people wrote the complete works but they still didn’t know what women want. Sometimes it seems to me that they do not know themselves. But nevertheless, there are some men ways to improve the relationship.
Praise her. Naturally the women can’t take their appearence. Even the most beautiful one comes to a plastic surgeon to make her features better. Next time when she begins telling about her cellulite, leather or figure problems, tell her good little thing of her eyes, legs or hair, that is, the things she likes about herself. Don’t make the same compliment many times. Affirm it in different ways. Remember: a compliment less can ruin your relationship. Just make only one or two compliments a day, but unexpectedly.
A vacation together. Try to change the room you live in. Take a vacation together and go wherever you want. The place must be chosen by you both. If you don’t have enough money, go somewhere you haven’t been before for weekend: a countryside house, fishing house or your friends’ new apartment. The change of the atmosphere will change the atmosphere between you two.
Romantic evening. It does not mean a usual romantic evening many people used to make for their sweethearts. If the fancy deceives you, then take her glance magazine as Cosmo or Elle. Find the pages she read many times. That is the answer for the style of evening. But if she doesn’t read any, then try to listen what she is accustomed to tell her friend. Don’t rely on your fancy in whole. For if she doesn’t like Japanese cuisine, don’t take her to the Japanese restaurant before your marvelous night.
Say her ‘I love you’, yet in your mind. Repeat these words when you wake up and she sleeps, when she quarrels, screams or complains about her cellulite. But do this in your mind as many times as possible. The result usually appears within one week!
Creative ideas. In the past men made houses themselves. You don’t have to build one, but try to improve your space with something handmade. If it is a creative picture of your couple or new design of the room, that doesn’t matter. When woman sees something attractive they began fall in love again. Do not forget: you do everything for ‘we’, not for ‘only her’ or ‘only me’. You should love yourself and everything you do. That does not mean you should appreciate yourself more than her or vice verse. That means you should take a really great pleasure of your working and changing your common future.
I made all the previous steps myself and my girlfriend (now my wife) is still with me. She never says she loves me. But once I heard her telling to a friend on the phone: “I’m so happy; I got the best men in the world”. No comments.