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Last Updated (Wednesday, 07 May 2008 16:09)
Written by Don Juan

Does this ever happen to you… you see a beautiful woman, and you want to approach her. But that whiny voice of inner “self talk” inside your head starts saying a bunch of negative crap… and pretty soon your heart is beating fast and your mouth is dry…the way she moved her hips when she walked, the way she moved her lips when she talked, and the way she used her eyes to look at you, all projected an exciting state of sexual readiness that made your heart leap… She makes you crazy… SO! WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO????
The first thing you have to remember is that you aren't eager to impress her. You must flirt!!! Flirt is the way to show you are attracted ---you must demonstrate high value to make woman be attracted to you at first.
Here are a few rules for flirting with a woman:
- Use flattery- but don't be supplicant
- Make direct eye contact - Be alpha man
- Play questions game
- Speak with confidence
- Share your life experiences- like mystery's photo routine.
- Whisper
- Using nicknames.
- Push and Pull - Leave her wanting more.
You have to know that flirting can be divided into two different types, flirting for fun and flirting with intent.
Flirting for fun may be the most common type. A guy naturally good with the female do this constantly. Anyway, whether flirting for fun or flirting with intent, it's always fun! Flirting with woman just for fun, like exchanging playful sideways glances, can make you feel energetic, but also demonstrate high value and attract other people to you. This type of flirting also project a great deal of alpha-man characteristic on your part.
When you flirt with intent, you are signaling your interest to the female. It must be careful because it shows you are supplicant. Firstly, you must show active disinterest. So when you pick up,
you must make sure that you flirt with her at the right moment. So if she takes your flirting, and you feel she is attracted to you, she will flirt back. Once this happens, your "game" on.
In any way you have to be in yourself for women, the effect of a man who projects his sexuality and charisma to her in an exciting way is even MORE powerful.
After all, success with women is not what you say, but HOW you say it. It’s your underlying INNER GAME that drives your state, actions, body language, and gives meaning to your words. Imagine if you approach a woman and you tell her the “perfect” opening line… but your underlying STATE is one of pure nervous anxiety. She’ll think you’re either weird or a wussy.
You see, it’s your Inner State that communicates to her BEHIND THE WORDS the kind of man you are.
And a woman can sense right away if a man thinks low of him or thinks that he doesn’t deserve her.
In fact, your Inner State is the FASTEST way for women to size you up and FEEL ATTRACTION… or REJECT YOU as yet another guy who doesn’t “get it”.
When you act “shy” or “nervous” or “awkward” a woman gets this gut feeling that you’re not a REAL MAN. And it’s over.
Does it ever seem like your own mind is working AGAINST you, or is even trying to SABOTAGE you out of success with women? This has to do with your BELIEFS which can either work for you or against you.
Here's the problem. Normally, your subconscious mind tries to protect you from what it perceives as danger. For example, maybe you have a hard time walking up to women. Maybe you have a hard time finding what words to say. Or maybe you have a hard time keeping that state of relaxed, sexual confidence around women.
But no matter how hard you consciously tell yourself not to be nervous or project a sexual energy, your subconscious thought process fights you every step of the way.
That’s because you’re limiting beliefs and current thought patterns are deeply ingrained HABITS that most likely you’ve been practicing for YEARS – and is going to take a very unique program to break you out of them.
Сonfidence alone isn’t enough… a confident guy can still be boring, a confident guy can still lose a woman’s attention in a matter of moments. Being relaxed, playful and social however creates the right energy while keeping her feeling relaxed, fun, and interested.
When you’re RELAXED, you adapt to different social situations and are flexible with whatever the situation calls for.
When you’re SOCIAL, other men assume you’re a leader of some kind… and women follow your lead.
When you’re MERRY and PLAYFUL, you tease girls, make them laugh, are flirtatious, and just have fun no matter what kind of challenge is thrown at you.
When you FEEL like a real man, you ACT relaxed, social, and fun, you feel free.
When you’re just enjoying yourself, relaxed in your own skin, it communicates to everyone around you in both your actions and your body language that you’re cool to be around and an approachable, social person.
Think about it. Just like the nonverbal sexual cues, your Inner State influences women on a primitive, unconscious level because it directly taps their unconscious sexual process.
Deep Inner Game is that program to BREAK YOU FREE of toxic limiting beliefs that hold you back… to make a TRANSFORMATION in yourself to become a DOMINANT MAN, the kind that beautiful women want.
Deep Inner Game is not about the structure of seduction, routines, or what to say to girls – rather it builds the FOUNDATION of your MASCULINITY that allows everything else to happen.
You see, we all carry “baggage” that holds us back. This program is about letting go of your limiting past and dumping limiting beliefs into the “Recycling Bin” of your brain and setting it to “defrag”.
Think of it as a total “mental FLUSH” of your operating system – a sort of psychological boot camp ass-kicking if you will.
Deep Inner Game builds a powerful mental foundation to transform yourself into a REAL MAN… supercharged with a playful, social, charismatic presence that women can actually FEEL when you’re near so that…
…you feel self-confidence and an inner feeling of calm no matter how beautiful the woman or the “social pressure” of the situation.
…so that you’ll always feel comfortable and perfectly normal in your own skin.
…so that if things don’t go exactly as planned, you don’t break down or stall out- instead, you bounce back in a cool, playful, and smart way so that your confidence EXPLODES.
... so that you come across as a real MAN with MASCULINE energy – someone who is a LEADER and comfortable with himself and the world and women around him.
…so that the inner voice that normally whines and holds you back becomes a source of jet fuel PROPULSION instead.
…so that instead of living in fear and confusion, you’ll be left with a fresh feeling of looking forward to every new day and every new situation.