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Last Updated (Monday, 05 May 2008 05:10)
Written by Don Juan

If you do not have a girl, it means that someone has two!
A problem is not in that someone does not know how to be successful in pickup. A problem is deeper, in attitude toward life and to surrounding in general. Almost everybody who has problems with girls has problems in other spheres of their life. It is therefore needed not so much to understand how to score a success with women, but to understand how to score a success in life in general. Women are just the special case. It is therefore necessary to do something with your life and then you can manage the problems with girls. And so, going step by step, accomplishing serious changes more and more at one moment you notice that relationships with girl became easier for you and some problems you had before are wasted!
If you don’t have a success with women, and your natural conduct (”to be yourself in any case”) does not help to have success with them, it means all your model of life is unaccomplished. Therefore study not only about acquaintance and tempting, but make attempt notice, where there are problems in your life. It is like to build a house by bricks: without creating foundation, walls will not rise, and if them someone will bring you, they will collapse from the first puff of light breeze or from the slammed door. Taking care about bases is needed: by meeting with a girl, a target must be not sex, but possibility to learn something new in that sphere; you have not scored a success yet. For example, you can learn how to be confident in yourself.
For everybody something new is needed, to score a success. For someone progress and new step will be a 107th poses, and for someone the greatest growth would be now the ability of dressing with taste. In principle, it is possible to carry in a bed a pretty woman about which you before and could not dream, but from it you will not become able to care what you already have. Yes, it is possible to hold a girl on leashes, as doggy, and she will be unhappy, in spite of the fact that you will be fully sexually satisfied. No doubt, these problems necessarily will emerge later. Tableware on a kitchen will change more frequent, than you expect.
If you are interested how to score a success, more important is to care about that she wanted always to be with you, instead of because you own eriksonian hypnosis. Otherwise you are doomed to hold her through life on a leash. Moreover, anymore circumstances in life of which you need to control, then more you will feel less comfort. And on the certain stage it is become a weakness and inability to live so farther.
It does not mean that you need always to do that, what she wants. It is not! Only it follows you to do yourself such, as you want, and then to choose the best from as it will make your girlfriend happy. Then it will be possible to say that you scored a success. The signal of your “improvement” is greater number of the people interested in you (including women). Not number of your victories in sex, but the number of interested - here that means to score a success. And while they are, use this for the further growth.
The pleasant evening.
You nicely talk about something interesting and you notice that for you a lot of things are common and conversation goes as great. In one wonderful moment you stop talking, and her eyes tell you: «Kiss me». But, something is wrong, some constraint. Well, no problem. You tell some joke again. You are again speaking with fun. «Look, what a funny dog there. I had a dog in childhood, so she was able to do....». And it turns out that you both love animals; she tells you about her favorite cat and, passing a road, on a traffic-light you are stopped and somehow suddenly stop talking again. Her eyes will say again: «I want a kiss», but to overcome yourself you have not enough force.