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The 3 seconds rule or 3s

Last Updated (Monday, 05 May 2008 04:46) Written by Don Juan

In pickup there is a rule in which the main secret of success consists for a beginning tempter. It is called the 3 seconds rule or 3s. Essence governed 3s consists in the following: as soon as you noticed a likable girl, you have only three seconds, to compel yourself to walk up to her. If you will be in indecision, forget about her. Leave it forever in the past, and search another woman.

Even if you have no idea what to talk about, don`t violate the three seconds rule. You must make her notice you at all costs and make a good impression about yourself. Observing the rule of three seconds, you demonstrate the boldness.

Not applying the rule of 3s, you, probably, will cast glance on a stranger or be in complete confusion, a confidence will evaporate and situation will get out of control. Instead of making an effort to talk with a beautiful woman, you get the impression about you as an unlucky person, being afraid to do the first step. Indecision is opened by a door to fear, and there is nothing you can do except for giving yourself explanations, why you did not walk up to the woman at once.

The rule of three seconds gives you another advantage: it deprives you time on thinking about the situation, you will not simply have time to sweat, agitated, begin to stammer. In addition, if all from the beginning will go in way, scarcely you will grow into galantine during a talk.

There can be several questions before application of the three seconds rule. What does it mean to:

  • “find a girl”?
  • Limited only by a visual contact?
  • If yes, do we owe to set such contact together or to wait, when it in reply will cast a look on me?
  • If she speaks with someone with enthusiasm, may be, it`s better to wait a bit?


Sufficiently! Do not you see really, what is she busy at? Rule of three seconds and it is thought of with a toy purpose, not to give you time on deliberation of situation and immediately to give up in an attack. Counting out of time begins from that moment, as you noticed each other. If she for a second cast a look to the part of room, where you stand, it is better to walk up to her. It is not necessary to be stopped, convinced, she continues to look on you or not. It hesitating and we will leave her for fellows, preferring to return home in lonelinessJ

So, here you have all the required answers to your questions. And now, notice:

It is important to understand the primary purpose of “rule of three seconds” - is not to enable your brain to give birth the great number of excuses, reasons for the waiver of acquaintance. And it constantly takes place with a beginning tempter, covering the uncertainty thus.

The best way the rule of three seconds shows itself to you, is when you are in a new situation. People notice you, when you open a door or go out from a corner - because you bring in a change in the statics of them environment. Each time you intend to call somewhere - whether in a bar, cafe or on a friendly evening-party, - it is necessary strictly to observe 3С governed. Every time, turning a corner, be ready without a delay to walk up to the most beautiful woman which will give new maintenance of your life!

So the idea is: All you need is to act, following instinct, not to reflect.

Certainly, there is an exception from the rule of 3С. For example, you noticed a pretty woman during a talk with somebody. In this case the reverse counting out of three seconds will begin from the moment of completion of talk. The same is faithful in regard to a girl, engaged a talk. We will suppose, she noticed you too, but still continues to socialize with the friend. Nothing frightful, wait, while he will disappear (early or late it will happen necessarily), and at once fit for her.