Very effective, because its, not requiring knowledge of NLP, which alike already became a sacred cow in it echo, nevertheless uses adopting NLP. At correct implementation this method gives complete and deep rapport almost instantly.In short, here are 4 questions, set them in this manner, interpreting immediately after each answer.  You are going on the road and suddenly the wall blocks your way. Describe it, and your actions.Your favorite color, describe it and your feelings.  Your favorite animal? Describe it. Imagine that you have been near water, a lot of water ... describe it, what is, your feelings and what are you going to do... InterpretationThe reaction to the problem, obstacles on the road life, and how does she overcome them. That as you see yourselves, your skills.And so you are accepted by other people. Relation to Sex Asking questions, try to dig dive, pushing her to the ambiguous detail, more evaluative epithets, extravagant detail: )